November 2025 – Page 5 – Life is Fun, But Not a Joke

Naming Nectar: Paul’s Precision in Philemon

Take a Dive with Dr J; from the petal to the hive.

From the petal to the hive—let’s take a dive into the sweetness of meaning, where every word carries weight and every name holds nectar.

In this series, we invite the believer on a scenic journey—from the delicate petal of personal engagement to the communal hive of gospel ministry. Each dive explores how biblical language, like nectar, is gathered with care and transformed into honeyed insight.

🐝 The Scene
In his brief letter to Philemon, Paul greets four individuals—but not with uniformity. Each name is paired with a distinct term of association:

– Timothy: Brother
– Philemon: Dearly beloved and fellow laborer
– Apphia: Beloved
– Archippus: Fellow soldier

Paul could have easily used “brother” for all. But he doesn’t. Instead, he chooses specificity—each term tailored to the person’s relationship, role, and memory.

🧠 Memory and Ministry
This isn’t just poetic flourish. It’s pastoral precision. Paul affirms each person’s unique value in the gospel story. His words are not generic—they’re generative. They build identity, affirm calling, and deepen connection.

In ministry, memory matters. And naming is one way we remember well. By choosing distinct terms, Paul ensures that each person knows they are seen, known, and honored.

🍯 Honey Drop
Affirmation is not flattery—it’s formation.
When we speak with specificity, we don’t just communicate—we consecrate. We turn casual greetings into sacred recognitions. Like bees gathering nectar, we collect the details that make each person distinct—and return to the hive with honey that nourishes the whole.